Home Again 2020: a story of survival


Home Again 2020 (Jolt Survival Trilogy, Book 3) is a historical novel about Jason, Marty, and their mother, Mary Matters, reunited in their home in Ariana. Right hemisphere brain injury has caused Lou Matters, the father, to suffer left side neglect and vision loss. Mary is a speech language pathologist who treats children on the autism spectrum. The story of their individual and joint struggles and efforts to heal are blind-sided by the advent of the COVID-19 pandemic in an environment where answers elude a government that is itself overwhelmed. Home Again 2020 is the story of the search to heal and survive in an increasingly complex world.

Medals awarded Home Again 2020 (Jolt Survival Trilogy Book 3)

  • Jenkins 2021 International eLit Medals:
    • Gold Medal for Current Events II
    • Silver Medal for Multicultural Fiction in the
  • Jenkins 2021 Living Now Awards Medalist:
    • Bronze Medal for Novel

Coming Back


On July 18, 2014, my only son . . . my only child . . . was taken from us. And with him went the main light of my life. I never knew how much of my life he formed and influenced but with him gone it is only now as I come out of active mourning that I look around and find a flatness I could never have imagined possible. With him went the verve I once knew for writing, learning, leading, and speaking. During the workday, I remain focused and productive however once home, I have fallen into a sense of nothingness. I follow the events in the news and remain responsive to my sisters, grandsons, and nieces, but they are not with me the long nights alone at home when I find so little impetus to initiate activities of interest. In the past week I have started to read again. For four of the past five nights I read a novel from cover to cover. They were not great novels, but they held my mind. Perhaps this is a start of again doing things on my own. I can only hope.

2011 Living Now Medalist in Inspirational Fiction

Who Is Watching Foreclosed Property?


Roberta M. Roy

Two recent occurrences related to properties going into or in foreclosure flew as do red flags to the need for closer tabs on the rules related to the management of foreclosed properties. The first involved a neighbor to the owner the second involved the direct care of a foreclosed owner’s property by a reputedly appointed company. One story occurred in the country, one in the city. Two different national banks were involved.

A Foreclosed House in the Country

A multiple-family on the outskirts of a tiny village in Dutchess County, New York, had been taken over by the bank. As the dead-end on which the house was located was narrow and it was difficult to park in a way that permitted other cars to easily pass, the man next door to the foreclosed property parked on its driveway, in part to lessen the look of the property having been abandoned.

A few days later, a bank representative dropped by and he and the man talked about how having a car parked on the foreclosed property lessened the likelihood of the place being vandalized. So, given that even the bank rep thought it was a good idea, the neighbor–being a good neighbor and happy to keep his vehicle off the road–continued to park in the driveway of the foreclosed property—that is until one morning when the man looked to find that his car was no longer there. It seemed it had been towed some thirty miles south of the village by a man hired not by the bank but by the entity appointed by the bank to keep the property clear of squatters and uninvited vehicles. It was then a representative of this entity that called a more ‘local’ tow truck owner to remove the vehicle.

As it turned out, with an apology, the tow trucker agreed to not charge the full three hundred dollars due him as he knew when he took the car that it was not an abandoned vehicle and had even called the Sheriff’s Department to let them know he was taking it in spite of the fact it had a license plate on it and towing it seemed a bit extreme. Well, the Sheriff’s Department explained, you can’t park on property owned by other people as that would be trespassing so it is perfectly okay if you tow it. Done.

The way it had worked was that the bank had hired an entity from the other side of the New York State to arrange for local providers in the Mid-Hudson Valley to do the Bank’s dirty work. Yet the tow trucker got paid for his time (by the local man not the bank) and the local man, after driving the thirty miles or so and paying the hundred or more dollars demanded, got his car back. None of which involved the appointed caretaker directly. So who is even to say the bank or the appointed entity would be technically liable if for instance in towing the car one of its axles had broken or the transmission fallen out.

A Foreclosed One-Family in the City

Scene change now from country to medium-sized city: A nicely kept one-family house in a pleasant ‘safe’ area in the city was undergoing foreclosure. Winter was coming. Again a large national bank appointed someone from another part of New York State to oversee the preparation of this property. They had been assigned to bleed the heating system and add antifreeze and that completed they were to it shut it off. An excellent plan except when the men showed they jumped from their trucks with hack saws in hand. A neighbor read on the truck that they in did heating and cooling called them. “Wait!” she said. “I have the keys to the house. The owner left them with me for use in case of emergencies. No need to break in.”

So the men took the keys.

Good Management or Vandalism?

In eyeballing the property after the men were done, the neighbor discovered that the men, instead of using the keys to open the locks had used the hacksaws to cut them out. To secure the back door, the workers had added a padlock. To secure the front door, nothing. It swung free in the wind, an invitation to burglars . . . or perhaps even to the same men to return after hours to remove the house furnishings.

The neighbor called the company named on the truck. The men had given her their cards. Whoever answers the phone insisted that padlocks had been placed on all the doors.

Time passed. Later in the day when the neighbor passes the front of the house it is visually quite evident that someone . . . probably one of the same men . . . returned for indeed, unlike the situation soon after they left, now indeed there is a padlock on the front door.

And I cannot help but wonder how many other strange invitations to behaviors bordering on or inviting thievery and vandalism are encourage by this and that national bank to be visited upon the innocent or minimally unwary neighborhoods across these United States. And I am reminded that the problem is probably so large that just determining who is in charge and holding them responsible would be pretty much beyond our simple means.

And I breathe a deep sigh of regret.

And the man who got back his car is just glad it was not damaged.

And the neighbor, who so faithfully kept the keys to keep the neighbor’s house and therefore the neighborhood well, feels a betrayed . . .  and just possibly under threat. But her life goes on.

Is there any other choice?

My conclusion: There is a greater need for oversight in the way in which banks and their miscellaneous appointees carry on business in relation to foreclosed properties.

But then who is there to do it? And what else is new?

A Little Wiser . . . But Is It Enough?


All a Little Wiser . . . But Is It Enough?

It seems so long ago. Life moves so quickly. From shock and fear to shaking oneself to confirm one is still alive to other concerns including the increased study of survival and onward to the establishment of volunteer emergency response teams in every county in the nation. No small feat. And quietly done. And we are stronger now. And wiser.

But twelve years ago with the attack on the Twin Towers we were less wise. It was my painful awareness of my own personal ignorance of what to do in the event of a mass attack . . . or event that was to become  the impetus for me to research and write Jolt: a rural noir. Truly a labor of love. A hand offered to those concerned about nuclear meltdowns. Not to mention a hint to the need to close down Indian Point. And in the interim it has not been until this last year or so that reactors are beginning to be closed.

Just days ago Vermont Yankee became the first nuclear power plant in the USA to close due to, among other things, concerns related to its spewing out nuclear waste into the Connnecticut River.

According to TruthDig Vermont Yankee announcement becomes the fifth shutdown declaration since 2013. When it closes in 2014 it will reduce the number of licensed reactors in the USA from 104 to 99.  Also, according toTruthDig, “As many as seven more proposed U.S. reactors have been canceled since January, turning the much-hyped “nuclear renaissance” into a rapidly rising rout. Upgrades at five other reactors have also been canceled.”

Of interest to us in the Hudson Valley of New York State is TruthDig‘s statement and my own review of the local papers, that the  double-reactor complex at Indian Point “remains under intense political fire as water and other permits there and at the upstate Fitzpatrick reactor are being bitterly contested in Albany.”

And . . . I apologize for the over reliance on one source and invite you to research the accuracy of the reporting . . .but due to the warming of the Cape Cod cooling water, TruthDig also stated that the Pilgrim reactor at Plymouth, south of Boston, recently had to reduce power while a reactor on Lake Michigan has been linked to cancer.

Given the above, I’m glad I decided to celebrate our growth in community awareness of how to respond to mass events . . . including meltdowns . . . even if my key original concern, Indian Point Power Plant remains open. 

I can only remain optimistic that it, too, will soon be closing, especially given it is the oldest and most degraded plant in the USA . . . and so close to NYC. Meantime I believe that now is the time for NYS to order the building the cement casings it will need to hold the Indian Point nuclear waste for it is going to take many many years before it becomes degraded enough to be safe. Meantime . . .

 

Roberta in Po-Town, Remembering

 

Therapeutic Crisis Intervention (Cornell University TCI)


An SLP’s Quick Take on TCI: As a speech language pathologist employed in a mixed residential and day student care center, each fall I am required to participate in a recertification program designed to prepare caregivers to offer a consistent, well-researched, dynamic, and caring response to children in crisis—crisis in this instance (my definition) referring to a personal, usually precipitous time of personal emotional crisis and associated behaviors. This required training is called Therapeutic Crisis Intervention or TCI. As a result of its application trained staff learn to use their skills to provide the young person time, space, understanding, and support through crises as they occur. Then following the event, in a Life Space Interview (LSI) the young person is encouraged to learn and use more effective ways to respond to similar situations should they occur in the future.

The TCI Effect: Since the institution of the teaching and application of TCI in residential settings, the need for physical interventions has dropped precipitously. Also, young people are being consistently coached to learn and use new and improved coping skills.

Therapeutic Crisis Intervention: According to the literature, [1]The Therapeutic Crisis Intervention System Residential Child Care Project development began in the 1980’s at the Family Life Development Center at Cornell University.  Most commonly referred to as TCI, it was designed to assist  [2]organizations in preventing crises from occurring, de-escalating potential crises, managing acute physical behavior, reducing potential and actual injury to young people and staff, teaching young people adaptive coping skills, and developing a learning organization.
Below is a summary drawn from my own study notes of how TCI works. For the real nitty-gritty, however, I suggest you go to the internet or download here a free copy of Crisis Intervention Handbook TCI Manual.

An Invitation: Please peruse my extremely simplified outline and if interested, as suggested above, take the time to read more about Therapeutic Crisis Intervention as I believe that within it there are nuggets of information possibly of value to anyone just going about the business of living and being human.

Roy’s Quick Notes on TCI

During the Crisis

The key concepts as I found them to be during the crisis as described inTCI are five:

  • Self-Awareness

      o The Four Questions
            1. What am I feeling now?
            2. What does the young person feel, need, or want?
            3. How is the environment affecting the young person?
            4. How do I best respond?
     

  • Crisis Communication/Active Listening

     o    KEY CONCEPT: Meaning to the young person is communicated mostly by Facial Expression (55%) and Tone of Voice (38%) with Words (7%) carrying the least meaningful part of the message

     o    Care providers meantime:
           1. Use Encouraging and Eliciting Techniques
           2. Understanding Responses
           3. Active Listening
     

  • Behavior Support Techniques relate to the

     o    Environment
           1. Decrease availability of possible causative factors
           2. Remove potential targets or weapons from the environment
           3. Consider need to ontrol heat and loudness levels

     o    Expressions of Care
           1. Caring gesture – hand to shoulder, smile if appropriate
           2. Proximity – move closer or sit down near if appropriate

     o    Verbal Guidance
           1. Prompting
           2. Hurtle Help
           3. Directive Statements
           4. Redirection and Distractions

     o    Time Away in which young person agrees to a need for quiet and a place where such quiet would be available and goes there for a length of time to be determined as the young person begins to calm and can agree he/she is all right to return (Used only if young person has good self-regulating skills)
     

  • Emotional First Aid

     o    Goals
           1. Co-regulation = Immediate help and support to reduce emotional intensity
           2. Resolve the immediate crisis
           3. Keep the young person in the program or activity

     o    Challenges the Caregiver to
           1. See the incident from the young person’s perspective
           2. Help the child connect his or her feelings and behaviors
           3. Encourage the young person to be responsible for his/her actions
     
     

  • Crisis Co-Regulation

     o    Purpose: To support both the Caregiver and the Young Person through the response of
           the Caregiver

     o    What the Caregiver can do:
           1. Use four questions (See Self-Awareness above) and positive self-talk (e.g. I can do
           this. The day is almost over. We got through this before.)
           2. Take a deep breath – Step back/ use protective stance (arms down, finger tips raised),
           Give the situation Time – Sit down if appropriate
           3. Remember the non-verbal message (facial expression, tone of voice, gestures and
           postures)
           4. SAY: Very little
           5. GIVE: Understanding Responses until such time as young person returns to baseline

    Following the Crisis
     

  • The Life Space Interview or LSI

     o    Goals of the LSI:
           1. Clarify events with/for the young person
           2. Repair and restore the relationship with the young person
           3. Teach the young person new coping skills
           4. Return the young person to normal functioning
           5. Reintegrate the young person into the program

     o    LSI Steps – I ESCAPE
            I– Isolate the conversation with the young person so no one other may comment in it
            E – Explore the young person’s point of view
            S – Summarize verbally the young person’s story of the event and feelings expressed
            C – Connect the young person’s feelings to his/her behaviors
            A – Alternative behaviors must be discussed to suggest other, more acceptable ways for
            the young person to respond in the future
            P – Plan or develop one or more new behaviors to be used in similar situations in the
            future/Practice (role play) that new behavior
            E– Enter the young person back into the routine

 

 

ALVA Lowers eBook Editing, Design, and Publication Rates


ALVA eBook editing, design, publication, and distribution prices just took a serious plunge. If you are thinking about publishing, check them out at http://alvapressinc.com/

Even ALVA the Indie text me from D.C. where she is participating in the fiftieth anniversary celebration of the March on Washington in 1963 at which Martin Luther King gave his memorable “I Have a Dream” speech.

After reviewing the new lower ALVA prices her comment, “Yes!!! Power to the people.”

As for me, all I want is her back here and ready to help with the editing and design onslaught when the writers get a hold of the new ALVA editing, design, and publication rates!
Check ’em out at http://alvapressinc.com

Roberta in Po-Town, Ready

ALVA Press Restyling


If you haven’t heard from me in a while, it has been because we’ve been doing double duty at ALVA, averaging the release of a book a month for the last three months. Since January we have published Helmy Parlente Kusuma’s travelogue love story Mementoes of Mai; Betty Hampel’s story of love and adventure, Odd Road Out; and readied for release in September two others. The first is an autobiographical anthology of poetry by North Country poet laureate, Jean Arleen Breed, Adirondack Paper Girl. The second it a children’s book, illustrated and written by Cathy Caminero called The Healing Patch: A Child’s Guide to Happiness.

Meantime the office staff has taken on two new faces so that now we are four. The website and pricing system for aspiring writers and established authors is currently being completely revamped to increase user friendliness and to decrease rates to better fit the writer’s needs.

Watch for an all new ALVA come September when we show the world we really mean it when we say, “Cherish the writer . . . Enchant the reader.”

Roberta in Po-Town